Thanks for your response....the older I get, the less dogmatic I am becoming. I've been through overly zealous phases like your "wacked out friend". All I can say is, that with any luck she will grow out of it, (but sometimes they don't). For the time being, just try to see it as her way of saying she cares about you. Just nod, smile, and say "thanks for being concerned".
For me the following verse speaks to the kind of heart that the Lord wants us to have:
The fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, gentleness, goodness and self control. Against such there is no law.--- don't know the reference offhand...
See, I'm not really a fanatic at all, am I?