So women are supposed to just open up their legs anytime their husbands want them to? I wouldn't define that love by any sense of the word. I wouldn't say that, but when the missus says that she's PERMANENTLY no longer interested in sex and there are kids involved and you're both a decent parenting team, sometimes looking outside, if done discreetly, is the best option.
You condone adultry? You're an idiot and I hope your wife, if you have one, dosen't get hurt by you.