[Gabz]

Man marries girl he loves. Girl says she loves him. Man is seen by girl talking with other girl. Mans wife upset and accuses man of philandering. Man tries to ignore it. Wife insists man is philandering and makes mans life miserable. Man has two choices, either philander or divorce because man can't live with angry girl. End of story.

Reverse the sexes and you have the story of my first marriage in a nutshell. It's not just the male of the species that marry "girls" - many a woman makes the mistake of marrying a boy. I did and what was worse - he was 21 years older than me - so really should have been a "man."

[Cold Heat]

Pretty big age difference. That may have contributed to the problem. Yes, age does not mean maturity.