Computer programs like Word don’t help. Witness that my post included the word “summery” thanks to spell check.
Part of reading is meditation. Also, growing up reading the right stuff doesn't hurt--with parents!
And if the brain plasticity for language acquisition is during ages 4-6 or so, that's when kids should be learning a second language.
Last verse of the Old Testament says something about the hearts of the fathers turned to the children and the hearts of the children turned to their fathers. There's a great line in the film by Andrei Tarkovsky, The Sacrifice where a child who has undergone throat surgery speaks his first words, "In the beginning was the Word, what is that, Papa?"
How many ways are there to spell "circling the drain"?