Ok. /s
But I do not define what my parents are currently experiencing as ‘living’...
I have seen that already too. Watching it again with my son’s mother-in-law and again with an associates in-laws.
I have a fear of outliving my my usefulness or ability. It is a conundrum you probaby can’t out think so you just do the best you can every day.
mom is 90 on the 16th, she lives by herself on the farm.