You're not kidding. The bitterness, cynicism, and nasty remarks that some call "being realistic" does wear a body down. It's totally unnecessary.
“…Vance did not convert to Opus Dei. No one does. He converted to Roman Catholicism under the guidance of a member of a Dominican order who happened to have strong Opus Dei ties and leanings.”
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“Like many curious Christians, Vance was drawn to the intellectual tradition of Roman Catholicism. I love it too. And Catholic particulars are seductive. Catholicism has a fancy side. Opus Dei is intensely stratified, it is easy to see how a man from a poor or struggling dysfunctional family who gets through Yale Law School might be drawn to the (Opus Dei) cult, due to its focus on prosperity….”
SOURCE:
https://indietheology.substack.com/p/is-jd-vance-opus-dei