You obviously do not know where of you speak. My mother was raped when she was nine. The consequences have rippled down through me to my daughter to my granddaughter. A rape destroys the person who was, what they were is dead. All must somehow re-create a life, but it will never be the life that they had beforehand. How nice that so many people are able to recover so well. But that says absolutely nothing about the extent of the crime of taking someone’s very soul for their own! And then claiming oh here it is again, nothing like it was before.