Pot, porn, and video games have wiped out a whole generation of young men.
And young women can hook themselves out on social media and get worldwide attention inflating their egos. Average guys can’t compete and choose not to. I can’t say I blame them.
Disparaging others and their addictions is the primary addiction of those who think they are qualified and able to judge everyone - except the one to whom they have been given control. See Romans 4.