I look at it another way, these players are in such high demand they can dictate the terms of their employment. Also, when you already have millions it is far easier to put your income in jeopardy to do things you want with your family. In Freddy’s shoes I would do the same thing.
You just described everything that’s wrong with the game. The legal framework of major league sports has distorted the market. The league gives these players the economic value they have. There’s no economic value in throwing or hitting a ball without the league.