One that I liked which isn’t on the list, hits you in your 40s, “when you bend down to get something off the floor you look to see if there is anything else while you are there”, that bending over thing sneaks up on you gentle like.
As far as loud bars and nightclubs, it is hard to do your magic of getting her out to the parking lot, or at least elsewhere, if you can’t talk to her.
LOL, I don’t enjoy noisy places at all-I have the tinnitus thing constantly, and when I am in a noisy environment, all sound, conversation, music, the clatter of chairs and everything else just melds into one ball of frustrating noise.
I try to lip read or cock my head to aim my ear towards their voice, but it doesn’t help.
I hate noisy environments now, but if I still drank liquor the way I used to, I might enjoy it, but...I don’t. Drinking takes too much energy now...so I only do it rarely nowadays.