That was sinful and perverse...... haven’t you looked around lately to see what society has become...do you even think critically about consequences?...actions and reactions?
I was merely addressing his happiness for “play” which was built upon selfishness and narcissism. We choose other forms of happiness.
The Golden Calf state of behavior of American society today was, as others have said, partly formed by the Hugh Hefner “philosophy” and was wrong.
I was the opposite of him. Low self esteem, self denial of happiness. Said of me: “You don’t know how to have fun.”