Flashy?
Bill Clinton, horrifically bent and his daughter looks like Webb Hubbell?
Obama, said in his youth to have been a homosexual prostitute?
By flashy, perhaps you mean that when you look beyond the first glance, or the introductory political narrative, you find that, ultimately, Bill and Barack were and are lacking in many proper/important traits that should be present in men and fathers.
**By flashy, perhaps you mean that when you look beyond the first glance**
Exactly but it’s not ‘you look’ it’s women look. Look at how many would take their pants off in front of BJ/Obama with their wives present.
One possible solution-every screwed up cat lady should bring one child into the world for her own physical and mental health. Then let someone in the community raise it. She can then be the crazy aunt godmother who comes around and helps finance the upbringing. Think Trump accounts.