You can say what you want about neocons ( the people most likely to use the term are marxists and surrenderjunkies) but it there is no truth to your comment that neocons hate military personnel. That is just false and doesn’t even make sense ideologically.
Sorry that was badly written and through you off.
It should be: (1) neocons and (2) democrats who hate you.
And for the record, I am neither a Marxist, nor a surrender monkey.
I do, generally speaking, oppose foreign entanglements unless there is a direct benefit to the USA or our interests.
For example, I volunteered for Afghanistan deployment. Sought it out. I wanted to kill those who hurt us. However, our mission changed and rapidly became BS.