I noticed this back in the 1980s after I was saved. Used to really stick in my craw.
I’m one of the rare few to actually benefit financially from my ex-wife running away with another man. She didn’t realize NJ is a no fault State, and although she got half of my pension, I got half of hers plus half of her deferred comp. That, along with the profit from the sale of our home, left me in fine financial shape. She, on the other hand, is quite unhappy with her new beau and his 2 kids. She is also suffering from some serious health issues. I don’t hate her or wish her any ill-will. I was a good husband and good Father.