This last year has been very bad with her even greater loss of memory, but, as her movement has now restrained by 24-hour oxygen and restriction to a wheelchair, at least I don't have to worry about her wandering off any more ...
I guess I'm just trying to look for the threads of silver in this cloud ...
oh my - you have really been through it. i admire you for standing by her despite how hard it is. you are a fine human being. i hope you can find joy in other parts of your life...wishing you better days.
So sorry you and your wife are on this journey. It’s a terrible disease.
So sorry about your wife. My MIL is in advanced stages. It is really horrible. I can’t imagine if it was my wife.
“I guess I’m just trying to look for the threads of silver in this cloud.”
I’m sorry you’re going through this. But I’m afraid silver linings are probably not in the cards. I was with her Tuesday and fed her lunch. She had a brief moment of lucidity and recognized me. She said she loved me and I said I loved her, too.
Then she drifted off to sleep for the last time.
So I got that to remember.
I hope you find peace and strength.
L