If Melissa Gilbert had such an issue with the age gap, she shouldn't have taken the role. What was she doing promoting a 8-year age gap marriages by taking such a role on television anyway? She could argue that she was only 15 but she could have refused the role on her 18th birthday.
Typical Schrodinger's Feminist - A woman who is simultaneously a Victim and Empowered until something happens, and then chooses which state benefits her the most.

Ain’t this the truth. Women want is both ways and then complain that we don’t understand.
No $hit Sherlock, how are we supposed to figure out which way you want to go today?
She spent much of her life in California. While never living there myself ( I know there are good people outside of the big leftist metropolitan areas) I have visited at length about 20 times and spent six months assigned to a project in Sacramento. The women there are literally crazy — it is a feeding frenzy of compounding idiocy.
My wife refuses to go there if I need to visit. She feels like it is a dangerous foreign country.