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Free Sex Costs Everything: How the Sexual Revolution Broke Marriage, Men, and Women
PJMEDIA ^ | 11-14-2025 | Jamie K. Wilson

Posted on 11/15/2025 7:25:53 AM PST by Taxman

A woman in her late thirties posts a simple complaint online: “Men can have kids into their seventies. I’ve only got a few years left. That’s so unfair.”

Within hours, her mentions are a war zone. Some men sneer about “geriatric eggs.” Others write manifestos about feminism and hypergamy. A few women defend her, but the thread collapses into the same argument we’ve been having for decades.

In Britain, a thirty-four-year-old woman recently sued her ex-boyfriend, claiming he had “stolen her childbearing years.” After ten years together, he ended the relationship without fulfilling his promises of marriage and children. Now, she’s demanding enough compensation to pay for in vitro fertilization, arguing that at her age, the damage is irreversible. The story, which may or may not be apocryphal, made international headlines (New York Post, Nov. 9, 2025).

None of this is about fairness. It’s about biology.

Both scenes expose the same raw truth: the difference between men and women starts in the body. Women face a narrow reproductive window and carry the heavier cost of sex and childbearing. Men can father children for decades and are built to compete for access. That single asymmetry — who can bear life, and when — shapes everything that follows.

Feminism can deny it, but it can’t erase it. The entire struggle between men and women — resentment, rivalry, dependency, love — traces back to unyielding biological facts.

Biology and the Social Machinery

Men and women were never designed for identical roles. Men are stronger and more expendable. Women are fertile for a brief span and pay a higher price for reproduction. Left unmanaged, that imbalance leads to chaos: predation, jealousy, neglect. Civilizations that survived learned to harness male aggression into protection and tie sexual access to responsibility.

That is where social machinery began.

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TOPICS: Chit/Chat; Education; History; Society
KEYWORDS: fragilesnowflakemen; installments; marriage; marriagetruth; men; nofreelunch; paymentplan; sex; women; youwillpay

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To: catnipman

“the increase in risk to the fetus is almost exclusively with the female due to the complexity of replicating new eggs over the decades ...”

I think it’s aging eggs


81 posted on 11/15/2025 9:41:43 AM PST by CottonBall (Librela, the new jab for dogs and cats. Pfizer/Zoetis is making billions killing our furbabies.)
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To: PGR88
And smart women realize that "feminism" and "sexual freedom" has liberated men from almost any responsibility towards women or children. Some guys will respond "No, I have to pay $2000/month to my bitch ex-wife because she has the kids." That STILL means no responsibility. Dad can disappear, and all he has to worry about is a financial payment.

Men are far more likely to have all their children with one woman, and most through marriage. Most divorced men do not have more children.

Women, especially in certain demographics, are far more likely to have children without ever being married, and are far more likely to have children with multiple fathers.

Cuckoldry is so prevalent that paternity testing is illegal in entire countries, and many places require a man known to not be the father pay child support.

The average body count of women is continuously increasing, exceeding their male peers, and despite having far more options for birth control - here we are.

82 posted on 11/15/2025 9:43:21 AM PST by T.B. Yoits
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To: CottonBall
Women insisted that they wanted to work.

That's a lie of Feminism. Women ALWAYS worked throughout history.

83 posted on 11/15/2025 9:45:31 AM PST by T.B. Yoits
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To: NorthMountain

I stand corrected.


84 posted on 11/15/2025 9:47:50 AM PST by ImJustAnotherOkie
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To: A_perfect_lady

Men have never changed, it was the female who changed, with the vote and legal and cultural dominance since the 60s,females and their politics have driven the changes in America.


85 posted on 11/15/2025 9:51:59 AM PST by ansel12 ((NATO warrior under Reagan, and RA under Nixon, bemoaning the pro-Russians from Vietnam to Ukraine.))
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To: Taxman

Dating apps have all of these women thinking they are all 10’s.
They believe they can “hold out” for something better. But then the wall hits them and it’s too late.

And… more and more men are simply saying no to a contract called marriage, that is almost always one sided when it comes to divorce.


86 posted on 11/15/2025 9:58:05 AM PST by unixfox (Abolish Slavery, Repeal the 16th Amendment)
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To: unixfox

The Wall is undefeated!


87 posted on 11/15/2025 9:59:49 AM PST by dfwgator ("I am Charlie Kirk!")
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To: catnipman

Very interesting! But I thought women are born with their eggs and the overies mature and release, not replicate, them over the womans reproductive life.


88 posted on 11/15/2025 10:04:41 AM PST by Theophilus (covfefe)
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To: T.B. Yoits

Yes, of course. And hard work, I can’t imagine making bread and cooking from scratch every day, after of course, going out and getting the kindling. Plus all the childcare.

But you know what I meant


89 posted on 11/15/2025 10:06:49 AM PST by CottonBall (Librela, the new jab for dogs and cats. Pfizer/Zoetis is making billions killing our furbabies.)
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To: grey_whiskers

AI will dwarf the tulip bubble.

The AI companies have spent over $700 billion on infrastructure in the last two years, but only have had some $40 billion in revenue.


Only started two years ago, but are already showing a 5.7% rate of return?

Their potential has barely started.

That looks like an amazing start so far. Cat videos and Only Fins have almost nothing to do with AI productivity.

Unlike Tulips, AI has strong potential to increase human productivity in many industries.


90 posted on 11/15/2025 10:15:12 AM PST by marktwain
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To: marktwain

But I can see some pushback coming on datacenters with their demands on electricity and water.


91 posted on 11/15/2025 10:16:19 AM PST by dfwgator ("I am Charlie Kirk!")
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To: marktwain

But at least “The King” is back! This is why AI was invented!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J2Zo5Osn-_4


92 posted on 11/15/2025 10:18:56 AM PST by dfwgator ("I am Charlie Kirk!")
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To: dfwgator

forrest gump taught him how to dance ...


93 posted on 11/15/2025 10:23:23 AM PST by bankwalker (Feminists, like all Marxists, are ungrateful parasites.)
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To: unixfox

Never used a dating app in the 10 years I was single.

No fault divorce cost me a lot of money — she got yhe gold mine and I got the shaft!


94 posted on 11/15/2025 10:25:26 AM PST by Taxman (We will never be a truly free people so long as we have the income tax and the IRS. )
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To: CottonBall
But you know what I meant

I know what you meant but it's still a lie of Feminism.

Women have worked outside their immediate family long before the eight maids a milking on the twelfth day of Christmas. For example, women in ancient Egypt ran bakeries, wove clothing, and cooked for others outside their families. Peruvian women wove ropes for entire bridges crossing gorges and rivers starting from back in the Incan Empire. Female nurses have been described since 500 B.C. in different parts of the world.

95 posted on 11/15/2025 10:25:27 AM PST by T.B. Yoits
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To: catnipman

I thought that unfertilized eggs do not divide. Aren’t all of a female’s eggs created while she is still a fetus in the womb?


96 posted on 11/15/2025 10:28:58 AM PST by JeemBeau
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To: daniel1212

AI is scary stuff!

Reads like some person really wrote it, and reaches the same conclusion I reached.


97 posted on 11/15/2025 10:30:40 AM PST by Taxman (We will never be a truly free people so long as we have the income tax and the IRS. )
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To: Taxman
Jamie - the author of this very thoughtful essay.


98 posted on 11/15/2025 10:30:57 AM PST by aquila48 (Do not let them make you "care" ! Guilting you is how they control you. )
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To: Taxman
The "Sexual Revolution" is a red herring, designed to distract from the truth. It was Feminism, as a tool of the Socialists, that led to this. The "Sexual Revolution" was downstream and decades later.

The debasement of sex to recreation status didn't take off until after broadcast television, the creation of artificial contraception, and the legalization of abortion. "Here's what you should do. Here's what will remove certain risks and if that doesn't work, you have the legal option of killing the child."

This wasn't about "liberation", "freedom", or "women's rights". It was about attacking the nuclear family, destroying nationalism, and coercing people into tax and debt slavery.

Ernest Belfort Bax wrote "The Fraud of Feminism" in 1913.

99 posted on 11/15/2025 10:34:20 AM PST by T.B. Yoits
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To: Rummyfan

I’m gonna hazard a guess that by the time a female is 20 or so years old, they know about their biological clock.

I’m further gonna guess that they make a conscious decision to have/not have kids.

What I do know is that the pill and the abortion business and the attendant mindset of both men and women has disrupted our society!


100 posted on 11/15/2025 10:37:11 AM PST by Taxman (We will never be a truly free people so long as we have the income tax and the IRS. )
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