I have difficulty with surrogacy. People, who cant have children either need to accept it or adopt a child from from relatives or friends.
“I discovered that in fact, a man in the UK was M’s biological father.
What? How? Why?
The tale itself is disquieting. But I am not getting how she is keeping up with these details from what was a pure transaction.
Surrogacy is terrible for the child. After 9 months, it is torn from the one person that is knows. The biological ties run deep. Long term physical and emotional scars will manifest themselves later in life.
Stupid!
I know what to say. Being vulnerable and an idiot are one and the same. She now wants to speak out. She can save the bellyaching. She became part of human trafficking.
Much the same can be said bout IVF. The baby is aa commodity, created artificially to meet the wants (not the needs) of self-centered couples (or, increasingly gay couples and even "thriples"). It doesn't matter who else is hurt along the way. In the case of IFV, it's even worse since in the process, innocent unborn human lives are snuffed out or placed indefinitely in frozen limbo because they were not lucky enough to be the "chosen ones".