may God continue to bless you and your MIL. it’s wonderful that she has a faithful, caring family to help her through to the end (or as near to the end as you can make it). i tell you, your reward in heaven will be great.
there’s no question that you have to fight like hell for your dementia patient. we’ve cared now for two. one has passed on. many times our moms would have been taken from us early, but for our diligence with medical authority and even our own ignorance. they know nothing really about dementia, despite wasting untold millions on research (that’s what ought to make you mad). may God keep you and yours strong.
Thanks and sorry about your mom. You are so right about the money squandered on research. It shouldn’t be so hard to come up with effective treatments. There has got to be a lot of corruption going on. Just look at the state of our Universities.