The man just wanted dinner for his family but couldn’t afford to tip. It’s not his job to pay her wages it’s the restaurants.
Oh, come on. Everybody over the age of 12 knows that servers earn 90% of their income from tips and that you are morally obligated to tip (unless the service is miserable). It must be very frustrating to serve a low-life who uses your services and doesn’t tip.
uses your services I see ...
So a "tip" isn't a gift, it's income; payment for services rendered.
Some people (not you) are unclear on this concept.