I blame the feminists. They did it to themselves. They’re unhappy no matter what and they want to take us with them.
With my ex-wife it was her cheating that did her in. She open-mouthed kissed on a man in front of one of her friends (a lady at church). Then my ex openly bragged about it to my mother that she had a relationship with him. Yet I forgave her and she couldn't accept forgiveness. Her self-condemnation made her withdraw from church and even God altogether. To be honest, one of the reasons I forgave her is I knew that men have zero chance of winning custody battles .... or so I thought. I forgot the God factor.
My ex filed for divorce and went scorched earth, trying to destroy my relationship with my kids, my relationships at church, and my finances. After she had custody for 3 years I won (I owe the Lord!).
I later married a gorgeous thing who loves the Lord and we helped each other finish raising our kids while not just attending, but volunteering in church. My finances restored better than before, with more kids who love me like a father. (Think modern day Job.) I owe the Lord!