I don’t know... In the Andalucia you remember, were there a lot of hot young women sitting around at cafes drinking wine on warm evenings? If so, I don’t think it’s changed all that much.
I don’t recall seeing a lot of young women sipping wine at cafés in the evenings. What I recall is that one of the more popular activities there was to just walk around town late in the evening. We liked to do that also.
There was a bar called “The Pink Panther” in town. It had a giant pink panther plush standing near the entrance. We used to go there with our infant son and play darts. In Spain in the early 1980s, no one blinked an eye if you brought your baby into a bar...