It is absolutely not.
This is far more than just some stranger getting shot like just another murder in Chicago on any random weekend.
Some people actually have the milk of human kindness flowing in their veins and can feel for others, particularly his family.
Everyone grieves in their own way and nobody should ever be shamed or forced into dealing with it according to someone else's opinion and time line.
The person asked if I felt like that. No. Don’t want my opinion, then don’t ask the question metmom.