That's not comparable, any more than a white person talking about going to a "honky tonk". To me the double standard is how often blacks get away with using racial slurs against whites.
Okay that’s just stupid. I haven’t hung around any black people for a while but the last time I was near a group of them the n word was spoken several times. My wife and I were walking down town to go to the movies. We walked several blocks to the imax and then back to the regular theater. Anyway black people gather in groups and play rap music on bluetooth speakers really loud and they use the n word a LOT.
By contrast I have never said honky tonk and I have never called any of my friends a honky. Never. Never. I repeat myself to emphasize the fact that I do not refer to other people who share my racial characteristics as honky. Most of my friends do not ever say they are white and they don’t seem to care. If I was wrapped up in my racial identity as much as many black people appear to be, I would be thought of as a racist.