As pro life as I am, I do agree with you.
Yes these men should have been more careful with their seed. Now he wants to care? Men wanted abortion for easy sex without responsibility, but the sword cuts both ways.
Do they really want to raise a child by themselves? Oh I’m sure they would and when “daddy’s new girlfriend” comes in their lives that will be just hell for the kid.
All I have to say is men protect your seed.
You write of men as though men are an undifferentiated collective defined by the worst individual men.
That is incredibly destructive and dismissive of the good fathers who love their daughters and sons and want to protect them between conception and birth.
Being with the wrong woman is indeed to be avoided, but the penalty for failing to avoid it should not be the death of the father’s daughter or son.