No, most people did people did things like this to their children to help them learn.
People didn’t coddle their children like you might have been.
I’m glad that you found a new arguement to argue about for the next week or so. It’s good for the mind to practice verbal exercises.
And you only imagine that this was "normal", due to the fact that you obviously ONLY have ever been around lousy parents.
"TEACH THEM A LESSON"?
What "lesson" is doing any of that to a toddler or even a child? How to be a classless sod?
It would be much better to teach their children good manners, how to make their beds, and cook a few simple dishes and I don't mean toddlers, but a child as young as 4 is fully able to learn how to set a table and do very simple chores, with older children being taught other valuable things (at each appropriate age), such as starting a saving account at 6, how to iron around 10, etc.!