“Outside” is not a consideration here. Plus she can’t stand the way pods feel. If she wants “over the ear”, she wants over the ear. :-)
OK. It seems like you know exactly what you want based on your knowledge and requirements, so why ask here? You know the price point and performance you are looking for, what to buy, and where to buy, so just do it, then tell us what you decided and why, and if it meets your expectations.