With all the over time I could get. I never said " I dont want to work weekends and nights ".
Dump the " I dont wanna work too much attitude, do your kids a favor and make them clean the house, mow the lawn, pull weeds, wash the car, help change oil, a flat, vacuum the car, clean out the car, clean the gutters or at least hold the bag, take out the trash, help an elderly or disabled neighbor do the same. And dont pay them cash. Buy a pizza or whatever they like.
Doing good and work are a blessing, not the curse people think it is.
and limit the phone and video game time, it literally rots a person's brain. ( look at my posts!)