I am sorry for the loss of your son. May God bless you and your husband. When I read this woman’s account, my first thought was “selfish.”
You know babies still die from “crib death” or as they call it today SIDS. No one knows why. Could happen any time between one month and one year of age of a baby. Point being that baby is a gift from God and he may ask for it back at any time, and you have to return it.
Typical “red herring” baby killing argument.
That was my first thought too.