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When Families Disagree
June 9, 2025 | MosesKnows

Posted on 06/09/2025 10:17:35 AM PDT by MosesKnows

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What have you observed or experienced?
1 posted on 06/09/2025 10:17:35 AM PDT by MosesKnows
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To: MosesKnows

People on the left enjoy the virtue signal of a good shunning. They are way more likely to break off relationships over politics.


2 posted on 06/09/2025 10:21:01 AM PDT by Codeflier (Don't worry....be happy)
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The Left breaks off contact, the Right are fine with it.

3 posted on 06/09/2025 10:23:24 AM PDT by BitWielder1 (I'd rather have Unequal Wealth than Equal Poverty.)
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To: MosesKnows
My wife and I cut off a portion of our mutual families after Obama's election to keep them from infecting our young children. That portion enlarged after others became COVID Nazis 12 years thereafter.

It broke my heart how cousins I played with for years and were so close with, literally lost their minds. But it was the best decision we ever made, especially given what hot messes are several of their own children are now. I pray for them. But lost.

4 posted on 06/09/2025 10:26:00 AM PDT by montag813
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To: MosesKnows

It’s just another sign of the eventual return of Christ. Our love for one another is growing cold. It is seeping into families more and more.


5 posted on 06/09/2025 10:26:05 AM PDT by vpintheak (Screw the ChiComms! America first!)
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To: MosesKnows

I’ve listened to more than enough lies, filth, and venom. I cut the relationship off. Life is much more pleasant.


6 posted on 06/09/2025 10:28:08 AM PDT by ryderann
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To: vpintheak

Sadly.


7 posted on 06/09/2025 10:28:30 AM PDT by No name given ( Anonymous is who you’ll know me as)
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To: Codeflier

That’s how depraved the left is.


8 posted on 06/09/2025 10:28:56 AM PDT by No name given ( Anonymous is who you’ll know me as)
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To: vpintheak
It’s just another sign of the eventual return of Christ. Our love for one another is growing cold. It is seeping into families more and more.

That is part of why we kept our kids away, because our leftist cousins abandoned God along with their reason. Non-negotiable to us.

Our kids once complained about not having had as much "cousin time" as we did - that is, until they glanced at Facebook and SnapChat and saw one cousin who was "non-binary," grotesquely pierced and carrying a Hamas flag in NYC, and another working for a Rat politician endorsing abortion and euthanasia. Tragic.

9 posted on 06/09/2025 10:31:53 AM PDT by montag813
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To: MosesKnows

A large collection of classmates meet on FB. When the leftists become insufferable, I snooze them for 30 days. The ones that cannot stand my MAGA stance, block me. There is a palpable difference between the two: I want to remain friends as much as possible, they want to remain revolutionaries as much as possible.


10 posted on 06/09/2025 10:32:34 AM PDT by chajin ("There is no other name under heaven given among people by which we must be saved." Acts 4:12)
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To: Codeflier
People on the left enjoy the virtue signal of a good shunning. They are way more likely to break off relationships over politics.

I see that a lot. I also seem the leftist family members break off relation for another reason -- they start stupid arguments that they can't win. In embarrassment, they save face by breaking off contact.

11 posted on 06/09/2025 10:33:47 AM PDT by Tell It Right (1 Thessalonians 5:21 -- Put everything to the test, hold fast to that which is true.)
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To: MosesKnows

I refuse to allow my leftist nieces to break off communication. I tell them that I disagree with them, believe in and love Trump fervently, and that I love them, too. Whether they will or not.

Heard recently from my conservative niece that she was listening to a sister rant but the sister kept adding in that she loved her, so I think I had some effect on the ranter.


12 posted on 06/09/2025 10:34:50 AM PDT by mairdie
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To: BitWielder1

Correct.


13 posted on 06/09/2025 10:35:43 AM PDT by No name given ( Anonymous is who you’ll know me as)
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To: MosesKnows

Both. We are nicer people but we have no obligation to allow evil into our lives.

I’ve stopped communicating with out of control leftists to save my sanity. No fuss or muss, just radio silence. You can’t talk to or reason with the willfuly blind and ignorant.

And leftists have left me after telling me how I’m stupid and racist, etc.

I don’t believe it’s worthy of scorekeeping, though.

Just keep praying for them.

And


14 posted on 06/09/2025 10:39:50 AM PDT by CaptainPhilFan (Donald J Trump: OF the People FOR the People WITH the People)
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To: MosesKnows

About 2/3 of my family is conservative. The other 1/3 is liberal. But it’s the old-fashioned, Harry Truman style liberal. Not the AOC commie style liberal.

Anyway, one side will never convince the other. That can only lead to hard feelings among good people. So it’s my job at family gatherings to deflect any such attempt.

Liberal: “I think Trump is out of control.”
Me: “I played the Power Ball last week. Missed a payout by one number!”

Does that work? Yes it does. But then again, in my family no one on either political side is totally insane.


15 posted on 06/09/2025 10:40:06 AM PDT by Leaning Right (It's morning in America. Again. )
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To: Codeflier

It s the left. The socialists, the democrats.
Just count yourself lucky they do not riot or try to kill you!


16 posted on 06/09/2025 10:41:02 AM PDT by minnesota_bound (Need more money to buy everything now)
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To: ryderann
One of the most difficult things for people to accept is that you can't change others. They won't change until they decide to, which may never happen.

Matthew 5:30 - And if thy right hand offend thee, cut it off, and cast it from thee: for it is profitable for thee that one of thy members should perish, and not that thy whole body should be cast into hell.

17 posted on 06/09/2025 10:41:46 AM PDT by T.B. Yoits
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To: MosesKnows

The Administrative state has imposed its will on so many areas, it is difficult to have a conversation with someone on the left without offending them. Cars? Even food, it gets to price really quickly. You basically have to agree with them or they are offended. You can exchange how the families are doing, fine and that is the extent of it. Then you just sit and listen, try not to act bored, keep your mouth shut, and try not to look at the clock too much.


18 posted on 06/09/2025 10:44:39 AM PDT by alternatives?
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To: MosesKnows

In my personal experience, it is the “peaceful/loving/tolerant/inclusive/virtuous”
libtarded hypocrites who shun the other. I don’t mind one bit.


19 posted on 06/09/2025 10:49:04 AM PDT by dadgum (Fight to WIN or do not fight at All)
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To: T.B. Yoits

> They won’t change until they decide to… <

Yep. When it comes to politics or religion, lectures won’t do the job.

Gentle and indirect arguments might help. But usually the person needs to find his own way. And often that takes a life-changing experience.


20 posted on 06/09/2025 10:50:58 AM PDT by Leaning Right (It's morning in America. Again. )
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