How so? I live in reality and right now the way it works is the feds control states by the $$$$.
Your local schools are generally funded by your state and local taxes.
I live in Ma and the fed funding for our school system is practically nil.
It’s interesting, I haven’t seen this silliness in any of our local sports. We had boys playing field hockey in the 80’s. It was about them playing the sport—not pretending to be girls. But that has been it.