The jerks tend to overlap in several areas. They just have the mentality, but it is not representative of most men. If most men were as you say, you’d be living in a country like Somakia or Liberia where violence is the norm. Women who make these generalities are often from violent homes, but makes their experiences skewed because they see the men in their lives and their dysfunctional behaviors and apply it to men in general
Men are more aggressive than women, but most men, like 90% of them, do not use use their aggression towards women.
Can you cite a reliable source for that?