Are you saying even with telepathy we won't know or understand what a woman is thinking?
Some people are born with different abilities, that they don't realize until later, that most others don't have, such as being able to match colors without a swatch, being able to mentally taste foods that they think of, ditto for smells, and actually are telepathic....which is the ability to send and receive messages by thinking them. Sometimes it goes beyond that.
I believe that it is genetic and throwback to abilities that people had normally, an extremely long time ago.
Mental telepathy is the sending and receiving messages through time and space ( you do NOT have to be in the same place at all! ), ergo...if a female is sending you a message, and YOU also have telepathy, you will KNOW what she is THINKING! And yes, some people REALLY do have these abilities!
And sometimes, even when NOT trying to send a message, people with these abilities WILL know what the other person is thing or doing.