I read your story, and to be honest, it seems like an overreaction. I wasn’t there. I don’t even have kids in school, so there are going to be some family situations I’ll never quite understand first hand.
You wanted the school to respect your daughter’s autonomy, and not have her shilling for them like some unpaid employee. I get that. You were letting your kid know that you cared about how she was treated by the school. That part I understand.
Let me break it down simple for you.
The school said they were going to have a massive outdoor Carnival for the students. Students had to bring in money or they would be put in detention for the day. I don’t think I was overreacting to that