Good kid.
When I was in 6th grade,me and a smart alec friend asked the class fat girl, how come you’re so fat?
She replied, how come you’re so ugly.
We had no response to that. She was a tough girl!
Homeschool her. The world is viscious. Teaching her to love is good, to accept your current state as immediately unchangeable is good, or good as it is, is good.
But teach her to push back plus 50% on rudeness goes a long way to shutting down rudeness upon others.
Consequences to a big mouth typically makes a big mouth small forever, at least more thoughtful.
And makes a sweet kid a warrior for kindness to all.
Homeschooling is they best way to instill this. But a punch to the nose is great too since she’s under 18 and a couple weeks off to celebrate the win are always in order.