[cuz1961]

I'm at a loss for what to do right now

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i suggest two educational courses

1 english. learn that gender is a grammatical term not a biological one.

there are 3
male
neuter
feminine

2 biology
learn that there are 2 sexes
male
female

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[Stepan12]

Gender is a grammatical term. The German language has a neutral gender.