This morning we were at a local business establishment.
We’re about to enter and a woman carrying a few items was inside about 15 feet from the door. We opened the door and stood back allowing her to exit first.
She looked pissed and said nothing. As she passed I said very loudly, “YOU’RE WELCOME!”
How hard is it to say “thanks” when someone helps you?
Not even "thanks," but at least a polite smile or nod would be nice. Doesn't seem all that hard; it's just bad manners in some people, I guess.
In situations like yours, I don't say anything. I don't do it because I expect thanks, but because I'm a gentleman. That part's up to me. The woman's response tells me whether she is a well-bred lady or not, which is on her.