I do not care if I am called a sexist misogynist, but look in a mirror. God designed you to bear and raise kids. Unless you choose to live a celibate and chaste life, if you want to work during your child bearing years you have one of three choices: 1) deny your children life through birth control, 2) kill them in the womb, or 3) abandon them to the care of strangers after birth. All three are selfish and in the end you will be childless and miserable. Nor should you think that your husband is “independent” working outside of the house. He is slaving to support you and your children. You cannot imagine the psychological burden this places on him.
I’ve never forgotten the bumper sticker I saw many years ago. It said
“radical mom, I raised my own kids .”
It is sad that is now considered radical.