There are two sets of issues. One is people complaining that the donations were the wrong size, or things that the kids didn’t ask for. Its OK to be disappointed about that. But then there were the ones where the parents were disappointed that the kids didn’t get expensive gifts. That is ridiculous.
“...the parents were disappointed that the kids didn’t get expensive gifts.”
Once you get hooked on being “given” things, your wants/needs/demands increase and will always outrun your “gets”. You will always be given enough to keep you hooked, but never enough to be satisfied.