I’ve managed to stay married to the same woman for 47 years.
I come from a home where mom changed husbands like she changed Maxipads, very occasionally but messy.
Perhaps Kids get tired of being used as weapons?
There is nothing civil about divorce.
Granted there are some very valid reasons for divorce. Adultery, physical abuse, or monetary reasons. Most Divorces are initiated by women that go on to marry a bigger POS than they just got rid of.
I did not get lucky, I worked hard to keep my marriage alive. As did my wife, it is a two way street.
Divorce just because, you lost “that loving feeling” is a failure. Chances are you were the failure.
Yes, it’s a two way street, give and take. You made a vow and commitment, do your best to make a good marriage happen.