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To: ImJustAnotherOkie

“her parents are to blame.”

Are her parents divorced?

I wonder when they divorced.

This is a pattern I experienced when testing women, especially lesbian women to determine the origin of their dislike for men. In over 90% of the cases I tested, the hatred for men originated when they were in their mother’s womb and the mother hated their birth father.

A child in the womb cannot differentiate between their own experiences and the experiences and emotions of their mother.

This is very common where the parents got married as the mother got pregnant out of marriage with the child that I’m working with.

You would be amazed at how often the birth father was from an affair and not the woman’s husband.

In any emotional response such as hatred, there is always a perceptual programming experience that set the pattern of behavior and emotional response as a part of their personality. This is also true in working with severe PTSD.

While depth psychology through psychotherapy often takes years to identify the original perception programming event, and often cannot identify it at all, it generally takes me five to ten minutes without the person saying anything to do the same thing.


10 posted on 12/18/2024 6:05:59 AM PST by tired&retired (Blessings )
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To: tired&retired

They were divorced when she was 5. Then they remarried later. Then divorced again. She had just started at the Christian school. I assume that sending her to a Christian school was a last ditch effort to set her right; but it might have triggered an opposite effect.

This kind of thing doesn’t usually make me sad, but this one does. From facebook, she was a very pretty kid who loved her dogs.


13 posted on 12/18/2024 6:14:07 AM PST by Liberty Ship ("Lord, make me fast and accurate.")
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To: tired&retired

One of the worst cases I experienced was with a woman in her mid fifties when she volunteered as part of a demonstration in front of a group attending a workshop I was teaching at a conference.

This woman’s anger toward men was the most extreme I ever encountered. She could not even stand up when I touched the stored memories in her soul relating to her mother and father. These are stored about fifteen feet from the physical body in the woman’s soul.

Afterward, the woman insisted on telling the group what her situation was. Keep in mind she was a total stranger and I didn’t even know her name, or anything about her.

I explained that it was not necessary to tell the group her personal experiences as I respected her privacy. She insisted, and explained that her mother was violently raped and they never knew who her father was.

The second thing I told her was about her extreme rejection issues with her mother right after birth. She explained that she was put up for adoption, right after birth.

These two events programmed her personality with extreme turmoil that ruined every relationship she had throughout her life.


16 posted on 12/18/2024 6:16:11 AM PST by tired&retired (Blessings )
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To: tired&retired
"For I hate divorce," says the Lord God of Israel, "and him who covers his garment with wrong," says the Lord of hosts. "So take heed of your spirit, that you do not deal treacherously."

Malachi 2:16

20 posted on 12/18/2024 6:24:31 AM PST by MeneMeneTekelUpharsin (Freedom is the freedom to discipline yourself so others don't have to do it for you.)
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To: tired&retired

read the story


21 posted on 12/18/2024 6:26:10 AM PST by ImJustAnotherOkie
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To: tired&retired

“The birth father was from an affair and not the woman’s husbund”. When I was in graduate school, came across a study that claimed that one out of ten children within a marriage had such origins.Values matter in psychosocial development. Americans are abandoning religion and its moral dictums. The results are not pretty or stable.The embrace of neo pagan, hedonistic decadence will not end well.


47 posted on 12/18/2024 7:27:24 AM PST by allendale
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