Well this isn’t a PTA meeting.
Catholics shouldn’t pick and choose what part you want to obey and what part you don’t.
Don’t go by this pope Frank, he should his own religion, because he certainly NOT CATHOLIC.
But if a faithful RC, you are to follow your pastors (see Required Catholic submission), with its living magisterium, which interprets Catholics teaching by word and deed, and not presume you know better than they, which causes divisions by acting like evangelical Christians (as me) are supposed to. Of course, to what extent RCs are allow themselves to be led like a docile flock and follow the Pastors, with this being their one duty, is subject to varying interpretations.