There is no "winning" this war. No matter what happens, both sides will have lost far too much.
I've read that the CIA pretty much started this conflict, and I hope to God Trump starts firing a whole bunch of the management (and a lot of the rank and file) from these agencies.
Trump needs to go Elon Musk on the incompetent, arrogant bureaucracy.
Trump is neutral. He does not have a vested interest in the war. All he wants is for the war to end.
Which is the way it should be. It's not about taking sides.