You are fortunate.
Mr mm does have the usual engineer social skill set.
I have been told this for a long long time.
Because I met my husband as an 18 year old, I actually thought they were all as gifted as he is. It took me till having kids in grade school with friends whose husbands were also engineers to see the difference.
My husband is one of a kind. Mama told me I might have to kiss a lot of frogs before I met my handsome Prince, and I’m so glad I didn’t have to kiss that many frogs…just several.