I would have paid NOT to be in one these groups while in college. Every fraternity or sorority member I met was a trust fund child. Maybe just anecdotal.
My dad was a member of a fraternity in college.
His dad was a farmer.
And my dad got an engineering degree.
Not sure the fraternity membership did anything for him, during or after. He wasn’t a party animal. And he got an excellent education many, many decades ago.
And had a very successful career afterwards.
Guess it depends on the Greek.