True statement.
The counterpoint being, G-d help the not yet mature man who isn’t in a position to just turn and leave, whomever he is.
Hard to understand Harry though... the term that some use is PW.
I hated my first job. I realized if I took on credit card debt, bought a car, or bought a house, I’d be locked into Hell. I lived below my means. While my coworkers bought awesome cars, I drove the twenty-year-old junker I’d used while in college. (I splurged on new tires.) While they bought houses, I lived in an apartment featuring a hollow core closet door for a front door. (It also had two prostitutes living next door.)
Years later when I worked for a big international defense company, I lived each day knowing they might try to force me to sign my name to a fraudulent certificate of compliance. I had a year’s living expenses saved. When the time came, they hit the Quality Manager instead, and he almost went to prison. And he got fired when the government found the fraud.
What I’m saying is, we build our own chains. I made mine from paper mâché and library paste.