They just don’t know of the unforeseen variables brother. You are about to make a major lifestyle change and need all the positive energy you can muster to get it done. Last thing you need is negative energy to bring you down.
I understand because I am currently in the same situation you are. I’m trying to make a major move and lifestyle change and if I don’t unhook from most of the mental chaos and clear my head I will never get the positive energy to get it done.
And I commend you because it is not easy at all to do... :)
I appreciate your kind words, truly, I do, as I do others here who have shown the same compassion you have shown me here.
Thank you brother.