[mmichaels1970]

I find women are the ones that tend to say these kinds of phrases more than men

I find that too. I try to live by “don’t say anything you can’t take back”. The women I’m surrounded by seem to have no qualms dropping a nuke in an argument.

[Secret Agent Man]

Thats because in general, women run on feelz, men run on logic.

They believe they don’t have to justify feelings so whatever they do when running on feelings is ok and not able to be criticized.

Combine that with the fact most don’t feel they ought to be accountable or responsible for what they do in their dealings with men in their lives, and generally don’t want to have to live under the same relationship rules they demand men live under...