As they are currently structured, the AI platforms I use do not learn from their interaction with me. Their learning is fixed and intentionally anchored in their "training" data sets.
Soon (I hope), you and I will be able to subscribed to an AI platform that can learn along with us and adapt to our own personal ways of thinking and learning.
I think personalized RAG (Retrieval Augmentation Generation architecture) is a step in that direction, but I haven't built a RAG for myself...yet.
This is true but you can AI knowledge with private data. So if you are able to capture the interactions in a meaningful but static way you may be able to avoid some of the issues you are having.
It does come at an increased cost depending on how much data you need to capture to make this work. You would also need an upscale account with your favorite AI vendor.
Medium has a bunch of articles on how to customize ChatGPT with private data.
The ChatGPT store has some private/new data models constructed by individuals that you can use. You can even create your own though I haven't delved into the details. The ones I have looked at in the ChatGPT store are essentially black boxes and I don't see any information as to how they were trained on specialized data.