I lost my virginity willingly at 15 years 8 months to a 24 year old married woman who took a fancy to me
I didn’t feel victimized or traumatized
Some guilt given my SBC upbringing
Nor did I become a prolific sex campaigner from the experience
Fairly uneventful from then till aged 21 when I met someone made an actual man of me God love her
I admit all 15 year old boys are not alike
Some are too immature
And the teacher issue counts
I’ll remind folks when I was young college had no restriction on faculty and students
1976-81
Sounds like a brief encounter that your seducer regarded as a flirty fling, as opposed to this child having to be in the same school with the woman every day, having her preying on him for many months, believeing they were "in love", and her becoming pregnant after telling him she wasn't able to.
The difference between a no-strings roll in the hay and this kind of life-wounding emotional drama is the difference between a pimple and cancer.